AM I my house's wife?

Am I the wife of the house or the wife of my beloved? Am I the child of God or the child of the world? The question begs the answer. My house is begging for much care and consideration. My children are begging for much attention. The most important person in my life goes lacking because I am a house's wife. We all know that old song "a chair is just a chair...". I shouldn't have to wait until we are on the rocks to sing that song in the pain of the corruption of my relationship. My life is vowed to a precious man of God and the concerns of his life are my own, that includes his home and his children, but not to the exclusion of the lord of the house whose wife I am. Help us, Lord Jesus!