Saturday, August 1, 2009

Learning to be comfortable to decorate or be the decorative part of the world.

In creation, The very last encouragement to Adam, as per the Bible narrative was the woman. Hey Man, this is a "looker". God had no problem rewarding Adam with something beautiful to make his days worthwhile. Be comfortable to beautify the world that God has put you in. Be comfortable to decorate yourself and have a sweet spirit. Don't let the deviancy of the wicked world make you cringe at being attractive.
It is true that sin has made the beauty of the attraction sometimes turn into something wicked. But, you can recoup and recreate the beauty of love that is intentional to one another. Do what you can to be the object of your own mans visual attraction? He should know that you do this for him. You are not a magazine for everybody. His alone. There will be seasons when you are changed into a monster and he will have to think back to your beauty of years. Many children later and many years of pulling on the skin can change you. Still in the eyes you can see what you are to one another in the heart. No one can steal that.
Don't let your sisterns be dispersed abroad. Don't let your story be given to everybody. Commit to doing all that you can to maintain the gift of marital love that is yours as a gift from God. The dividend is an aging time of comfort and care of one another. Someone whose body you are caring for and who cares for you. The body will start to decay and then, whose will you be? This belongs to me. I loved a young strong man and I love this elderly gentleman that he has become. The parts that are still as they were and the parts that are dwindling in sight and hearing etc. Love is seeing eachother as your own. I love what you have become. And I still can see you becoming, even down to old age.

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