The woman who teaches her son in Proverbs 31

says very little about whether or not you get along with her. As a woman, I feel a more than a little taken aback by that passage. It is so perfectionistic. It is about the reality that a man is comforted by the fact that his wife can take care of everything. The more skills that you have under your belt is the more that you will get along. Conflicts come, when there is something that should have been done that was left undone. A gracious husband can overlook a fault or two, but even the most gracious man needs the help that God has made you to be.
A right and good schedule and things being done and completed on time does much to abate most conflicts. You will have conflicts about the how to's and you will submit yourself to the way that his culture has reared him. But if it gets done and completed, most men will have nothing to say about it. Be an effective and accomplishing woman!